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Zachie

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So a little bit over a month ago I made a new friend! She's a lot younger than me but I don't think it matters that much bc it's just a friendship, but things have been really good and I really feel a connection bc we just get each other and I'm able to share a lot of my insecurities & stuff. Things are g r e a t !

But, of course, the same insecurities I'm able to tell her about also play at my brain and pick at me making me overthink things so much where I'm constantly freaking out about things, and like I also tell her this and she reassures me but like it still happens? It's really ****ing annoying bc like I feel she's the kind of friend I need bc she's really easy to talk too bc she understands & she loves complaining and I complain A LOT.

Why is life so hard????
 

Stormageden747

Zofian General
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Location
Ram Village, Zofia
My music career is finally starting to really take off. I suppose that's on my mind. Having had a performance of some kind every day since last Monday, daily rehearsals for a variety of projects, and an upcoming job in a pit band that creates another straight two weeks of nightly performances, my name is really starting to get out there, and it's starting to feel like the 3 years of school I have so far actually mean something. I actually feel like I have a purpose now, and it's an amazing feeling that I've never really felt before.

Although, I'm exhausted. I have rarely any free time now, with classes and homework taken into account, but at least my time is spent doing what I enjoy most.
When you get famous, don't forget us little guys. :`v`:
 

Dan

Joined
Sep 19, 2011
Gender
V2 White Male
So a little bit over a month ago I made a new friend! She's a lot younger than me but I don't think it matters that much bc it's just a friendship, but things have been really good and I really feel a connection bc we just get each other and I'm able to share a lot of my insecurities & stuff. Things are g r e a t !

But, of course, the same insecurities I'm able to tell her about also play at my brain and pick at me making me overthink things so much where I'm constantly freaking out about things, and like I also tell her this and she reassures me but like it still happens? It's really ****ing annoying bc like I feel she's the kind of friend I need bc she's really easy to talk too bc she understands & she loves complaining and I complain A LOT.

Why is life so hard????
Careful mate. I advise not going to women in real life about insecurities it's incredibly off putting to them. More so when you act paranoid around them. She'll never admit that she finds it off putting either so you're putting her in a bad position which she won't like. What women doesn't like complaining? :bubsy: Just remember men and women are wired differently, women hate hearing men complaining, where as men don't mind it if we can fix it like Bob the builder. If a women starts complaining to me about another women I'll be a sarcastic asshole to her.

If you have issues work on them but don't drag women into it, they just aren't equipped that way man, they'll appreciate you for it.
 

Namira

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Location
The End
Gender
Apache Helicopter
I keep getting phone calls about lowering my credit card interest rate.

Why this is so weird to me is that fact that I have no credit card.
 
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Location
Louisiana USA
I keep getting phone calls about lowering my credit card interest rate.

Why this is so weird to me is that fact that I have no credit card.
I keep getting phone calls that my vehicle warranty is ending soon and that i should purchase extended warranty..I've never bought a vehicle from a dealer lol
 

Satan

chunky plant goop
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gaying mantis
Had a therapy session with my dad today regarding stupid gender stuff, and I guess me not talking to him about it for the past couple months gave him the time to reflect on it and prepare for his "worst case scenario." Anyway, it went surprisingly well. I'm not gonna make changes right away, for his sake if not my own, but he truly seemed to handle the discussion of things getting "real" very well, and I am very grateful. It's definitely not gonna be an easy change for him, and it still is weird for me to think about to be honest--I mean, requesting him to see me as a son seems so demanding--but seeing his change in attitude today, compared to back in August, September, and October; hopefully it may be something I can ask of him someday. I see my gender specialist at the end of the month.

Also went out for plant stuff afterward. Got some seeds for our garden, and found a balanced fertilizer for my pet tree. Fertilizer selections suck, but I think what I got will work alright. While I was hyperanalyzing the fertilizer nutrients, my dad surprised me with a new plant; that's always welcome. It's a purple passion plant, which seems to have similar needs as my African violets, so hopefully I can keep it happy. It is very fuzzy, and its fuzzies are purple.
 

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Dmitri
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A Mellophone Player... Mellophonista?
Going to the orthopedist today to see if I broke my ankle again. It’s funny. The pain of breaking bones is not instant. The pain is so bad at first that your [insert bone here] just feels numb. When I tried to put pressure on it, it just gave out. I have extensive purple bruising on the side of my foot and lots of swelling. It’s not as bad as last time though when it swole so large that I couldn’t even put a sock on. I think that at worst, it could be a hairline fracture or a really bad sprain. Here’s hoping I’m not stuck in a cast for 8 weeks ha.
 

Namira

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The End
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Apache Helicopter
I drink because I hate myself and I hate myself because I drink.

Kind of a conundrum I’m in
 

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