I personally would argue that mafia contributes more towards the community than threads like "Post what song you're listening to" or whatever. Mafia has brought new members who do stick around and contribute to other parts of the forum.
I agree with this, but I think it's more of a hypocrisy regarding these almost these kinda threads that are a bit of a gray area between community content and almost game-like, tbh.
You don't think mafia games contribute to the community? Why even allow people to play them here, then, if that is the general consensus?
I think mafia can help bring new people to the main community (which was my case, I came here to play a crossover between Bulbagarden and ZD), but that's not often what happens, which frustrates some of users that get their hopes high about meeting new people they might share interest with (mainly Zelda). We almost had a "civil war" here back in 2020 because of some people were annoyed by the mafia section gathering people just for games (which honestly is kinda ???? if they main community was struggling at finding and welcoming people than the mafia community, that's not the mafia's community fault).
I also feel like it used to help members of the community strengthen bonds, but ended up evolving in a pretty different and isolated culture from the main community. The skill/ game knowledge barrier can also be a bit intimidating for the users, and also makes it even hard to simply spectate. The fact people that aren't playing can't even post in the games, as opposed to the people in it having to constantly post for a decently fluid one, also makes it kinda contrasting to other parts of the forum - as it's the only one like that.
I'd probably be more comfortable with the posts in mafia counting if it tapped a bit more into the main community directly, which I think is a bit of an issue at our (the mafia community's) end, since we could try a bit harder to promote more beginner friendly stuff.
I don't really know why someone would feel comfortable opening up first thing to a community they do not know. It is not safe to be that open and I would hope if someone is really struggling mentally, they wouldn't be signing up for a new community that would overwhelm them even more.
Hmm, people pushed into a corner do weird things. I've joined a few communities in the past while struggling mentally trying to seek some comfort venting or asking for advice to strangers, knowing they wouldn't have some types of biases. Another scenario like an old member that is returning with a puppet account or simply forgot their previous login info.
I know it's a lot of what ifs, but if someone might be able to get help from us I'd prefer if they didn't have to go through some bureaucracy to be able to ask for it.
The only cases I can think of members making their first posts in there (not counting the recent incident) have been a serious case of tmi of talking about their sex lives to complete strangers and I think it actually affected their ability to integrate into the community afterward.
Assuming we're thinking of the same individual, I think that didn't even happen on Life Advice? Wasn't that on General Discussion?
I'm not sure how imposing a restriction on Life Advice could probably help with this issue. If anything having it open there allows for a more appropriate place to talk about stuff like that, while making it more avoidable for users that are sensitive to topics like that.