****ing sick of family guilt-tripping me into doing things that aren't even urgent. Yes I will vacuum, no I will not do it right this second. No that does not mean I'm making you do all my work for me it means it's not getting done on your schedule. You ask me to do something, you're making me use my time and energy and I've already agreed to do it by tomorrow so let me ****ing do it when I have energy for it. "I can't do it because of my back problems" did I say I want you to do it instead of me? No. Did I say I'm not going to do it at all? No. Then there's no excuse for the shouting or the guilt-tripping, as if that's gonna suddenly give me energy to burn. For crying out loud.
This is a little problem but it made me really ****ing annoyed. I've been really irritable lately and I don't like it.