i got used to earbuds, but i like the gummy ones and always put in tbe smallest grip size. esrbuds were painful when i was a kid and i think it was a mic of them being hard plastic and my ears still being smaller cuz kid
my dumb lightning port earbuds always fall out cuz theres a stupid microphone thing on the left cord and that like adds unnecessary weight and makes it fall out of my ear
i liked my cheap jvc buds but stupid apple had to remove audio jack because reasons
these were my go to for a long time but the production quality got a little poorer over time. no microphone crap and comfy small grips for like 9 dollars
another perk of the smallest size of grip included is that it lessens the amount of pressure in your ear, cuz like earbuds could technically screw up the pressure of your ear if you have something like plastic or rubber closing off your entire canal