Boundaries are a thing, yo. She could very well be feeling uncomfortable if she sees you looking at her, hence the awkward looking away.
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ArchAngel217
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What the fricc is wrong with you, Ex? I never said I was making any moves or anything. Good God. I give a little paragraph on how I think a girl might like me, and you overreact by 500 degrees. I don't even know why the hell I post here anymore. I don't need people like you in my business. This kind of bullcrap is what makes me think of leaving this dumb place.
I don't look at her! I said "direction". The teacher is sometimes behind her and I make it a point to look at the teacher while in class.
Yeah honestly ex I think you’re going overboard here.
ArchAngel217
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I didn't say I'm doing anything! I'm not doing anything! Omigosh...
It’s less what you’re doing and more the mindset you seem to have of “girl says she doesn’t like me so she must be faking”. That’s an awfully big assumption to make (as well as a creepy one). It’s not a particularly healthy way to think about people you’re interested in.
I’m not accusing you of anything. As long as your interaction with her in this particular subject has been limited to the one conversation I don’t really see how any of this is an issue. Based on what you’ve said you don’t seem to be persistently bugging her about anything.
ArchAngel217
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Ummmmm I have other evidence. Either way, it doesn't matter. Just forget it.
You always think everything is overboard, Plinko.
I don't care if I'm being harsh, it's better to voice this here than wait for **** to escalate due to noone calling him out.
It's not the first time he's related or shown this sort of behavior here. There are members here that have felt harassed by him before.
Take a hint, she said no and clearly gave an excuse to push you away. Instead of insulting her behind her back in an internet forum and saying she's lying how about you just LISTEN and stop this delusion?
I don't care if I'm being harsh, it's better to voice this here than wait for **** to escalate due to noone calling him out.
It's not the first time he's related or shown this sort of behavior here. There are members here that have felt harassed by him before.
It's the damn mentality dude. This **** escalates quickly into action.
Take a hint, she said no and clearly gave an excuse to push you away. Instead of insulting her behind her back in an internet forum and saying she's lying how about you just LISTEN and stop this delusion?
No, I think your severe reaction to the mundane is overboard
Theres literally nothing wrong with thinking she might be lying, as long as you also realize that if she is there’s probably a reason for it and you shouldn’t push it.
It's the assumption that he knows what she's thinking that's concerning, whether it's acted on or not. It demonstrates a lack of concern for the boundaries of others.
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It literally doesn’t though. If there was a lack of concern for boundaries he would be acting on it. That’s how boundaries work.
If you'd all like to continue this conversation, I urge you to take it elsewhere. A new thread in Life Advice, a Group DM, whatever suits you.
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ArchAngel217
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Yes, I am not pushing anything. I've only had 6-7 conversations with her in my entire life! Ex is just friccin' pushing it.