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zeldahuman

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Hey guys, I'm not sure what conversation is going in here, but I need some help from female members of ZD, and I'm sure there are some here. It also helps you guys get close to your goal. So, there is this girl I like, who told me she likes me as well. I told her I liked her, and asked her out, we started dating. After about a week, I broke up with her because I was being extremely stupid and convinced myself I was trying to fill a void, as I just broke up with someone when I asked the girl out. It's been about three months since that, and she told me again she still has feelings for me, so the next week, after figuring stuff out, I asked her out again. She said can you let me think about it. Two days later, she says no. She sees me as a friend, not boyfriend. Her best friend is mad at her for that, and she just started going out with someone two days ago, and it's someone she's not allowed to be going out with either. When she heard I was upset she was going out with someone, she started feeling bad about it. Also, her best friend told me that she can tell she likes me because every time I'm mentioned, the girl says shut up, and punches her best friend. Her best friend said this is the sane way she reacted when the other guy was mentioned. So, my question, why does she either 1. Not want to admit she likes me? Or 2. Not want to go out with me at this time if she dies like me? My theories are that she's afraid of a repeat of last time, and that maybe she likes the other guy more. I know that some help from a girl would be better though. So please help.
I'm a guy, but i'm great at giving advice! I mean, I have my own Advice Column (link in my signature ;)):

I think this girl is afraid of having her heart broken by you again. I mean, I understand you situation, but if you maybe talked to her face to face and told her that you still like her, that you made a mistake, that you have your priorities straight and that you'd like another shot. If she says no, then this other guy might be the one who's ruling her heart at the moment. And even if she does like the other guy more, I bet that in a matter of time, they will be broken up and you'll be there to comfort her, to show her you care about her. And by golly, if that doesn't make her like you, I don't know what will!

In sum, show her you care. Make her feel special, make her feel like she's the only one you see.

/advice
 
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I chose... :D

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I just wanted to say something about Wolf Sage's sig - you should request a real one. The strange symbol is starting to get tedious. :P
 
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I just wanted to say something about Wolf Sage's sig - you should request a real one. The strange symbol is starting to get tedious. :P

I respect your opinion :nod:, but I <3 my siggy, and that's all that matters. Though, I plan to change it in the near future. :yes:
 

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