misskitten
Hello Sweetie!
I just have to ask; am I weird to believe that friendships need to be built on having something in common? I mean, I know I'm a pretty weird person, but I don't think that particular opinion is that weird - or is it? I mean, yes, the most important part of friendship is having someone to trust, who will be there for you - but you should actually enjoy spending time with this person, too...
The reason I'm asking this is because every now and then I get the "will you be my friend?" message on this social media/dating site I'm part of. Now, I'm all for finding friends, but the people who typically ask me this usually have nothing in common with me or at the very least they give no indicator that they do. The ones I usually wind up bonding with are more the people who more speak my language (metaphorically, not actually), the people who contact me based on a shared interest and the conversation just naturally develop from there. So, am I just strange for viewing friendships that way?
The reason I'm asking this is because every now and then I get the "will you be my friend?" message on this social media/dating site I'm part of. Now, I'm all for finding friends, but the people who typically ask me this usually have nothing in common with me or at the very least they give no indicator that they do. The ones I usually wind up bonding with are more the people who more speak my language (metaphorically, not actually), the people who contact me based on a shared interest and the conversation just naturally develop from there. So, am I just strange for viewing friendships that way?