Not to but in on youra and Hylian Knight's conversation, but I would just like to say I sympathize with you, being the odd man out as well. I am the *** end (excuse my language) of alot of gay and homosexual jokes, and people call me names and likes of such. And as for the matter of size, I'm merely an inch shorter and 5 pounds lighter. And I would love to hear some tips from a Ju-Jitsu taker, considering I used to take it, but I remember almost nothing of it.