Jirohnagi
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Finding it offensive and finding it "creepy and pedophillic" are the exact same thing. The latter is just a more condemning way to say "offensive". But it doesn't make it any more okay.
Exactly how other people think something is offensive doesn't make it any more okay to be "offended" on someone else's behalf and demand punishment. We cannot take accusations as proof of guilt. It's ridiculous. Pedophilia is a particularly charged topic that people feel strongly about. Too often it's used as a simply buzz word to label something as bad that cannot be questioned. Just like terrorism. Once labeled a terrorist, any explantion as to how it isn't terrorism just gets that person accused of supporting terrorism. Same thing happens with pedophilia. The accusation itself is used as the proof and any protesting against it gets labeled as supporting hurting kids (even though that's an unreasonable leap of logic).
Also note again the capacity to lie about, or not disclose, age here. Not saying that it's being lied about now, but it is something that isn't listed and something we cannot know for sure about anyone. And it's something we can't set a precedent on. By pushing this, you're expecting people to simply know information that was stated in passing that isn't explicitly listed in a user's information. And punish them for not knowing that. Not to say that it wasn't known here, but doing this sets that precedent. And on the same hand, we can't just force people to list their real ages if they don't want to. This is not an issue that is going to end well. As far as the legal liability Djinn mentioned (which he greatly exaggerated, if it was that bad most of the internet would have been sued out of existence), the site's obligation is actually to only respond to direct complaints from the individual or their parent/guardian. No one else. Someone else feeling offended on their behalf doesn't create legal problem for us. But it does create a logistical problem if we pander to this proxy offense. It just encourages more of it and it's usually harmful.
If the targeted person doesn't have a problem, then that's the end of it, no matter how uncomfortable anyone else is. No matter in what manner it makes them uncomfortable. It's none of their business.
So basically you are saying it's alright for me to make racist comments about americans or germans or jews or anyone then?
Not to re-ignite this, but i don't care to see comments about people wanting to bang a 13 year old on this site hell i don't want to see any comment of that type on this site, it doesn't belong here at all, people defending it shouldn't be, you are just saying "yea it's fine we've always done this type of thing so we can get away with it". Face it you DID get away with it, then people did notice, Yes most of us have nothing to contribute to this but the problem isn't so much that Malon was fine with the comment but that the comment even exists, since when was ZD a place where such a comment could exist?
TLR Rules state no sex commentary or jokes outside of MD, Loz broke the rules he got a pointless warning, why this was even brought here is a moot point, he claims to have done nothing wrong but end of the day it's mods judgement.
And i will say this, saying people should just grow and deal with it, allowed idiots like trump and hitler into power, it also has lead to people not believing rape victims as well. Kindly think about wording.
That is honestly the last word for my argument, i don't care whose in the right or wrong, i just want both sides to actually consider their wording.