What is something that bothers you about yourself?

[linkypete]

I procrastinate way too much
I get distracted far too easily, especially when I'm trying to go to sleep
I can be a real A-hole sometimes

 

[CynicalSquid]

I can't talk to people I don't know. I don't know how I have friends because I'm the worst at meeting new people.

 

[Pen]

I suck at going to bed. Falling asleep is never a problem, I just need to get to bed, but it always happens way later then I'd planned. lol

 

[Moonstone]

I'm easily stressed out. I know I should just calm down but I find it hard to do that.

 

[Terminus]

Lately I've been unable to get a good nights sleep so add that to the list.

 

[CrimsonCavalier]

1. I'm lazy. To a fault. I have all these things I need to do, but I'd much rather spend time online or playing video games than actually doing the things I need to do. I do them eventually, but then I am stressed about it because I left all of it till the end and I end up having too much on my plate. Coincides with procrastination.
2. I have no sense of prioritization. Which is why when I start law school in the fall, I'm putting my video games in a closet somewhere. If I even have the slight temptation to play, I will, and I won't study or do my homework. If I have no access to those things, then that will be one less distraction.
3. I tend to ignore things that stress me. This is a coping mechanism, but it's EXTREMELY unhealthy. Example:

Once, I missed class, and I missed a very important lecture, and I fell behind in that class, because I then did poorly on the quiz for that lecture. My response? Study twice as hard to catch up? NO! I instead NEVER WENT TO THAT CLASS AGAIN. It was too stressful, and so my solution was to pretend it did not exist.

I bite my nails when I'm nervous. I've done it so often I do it subconsciously, and it's wicked hard to stop.

Are you from Massachusetts?

 

[Ominethious]

Well ****, I'm going to need bullets for this:

• High anxiety pool *adds with down the list*.
• Extremely low stress tipping point.
• A deeply, and endlessly sewn wrath, and hatred.
• Any time I'm in anxiety, or anger my skin physically feels like its burning, and my heart is being pierced by a knife.
• Severe bipolar personality.
• Depression out the ass.
• Guilt trippy AF sometimes.
• ♪♪Proooo-crastinaaaatiooon!♪♪
• On a command leash for so long I cannot make my own personal decisions.
• Have been in a really **** 6 hour or less sleep schedule.
• I have problems talking to people face to face. Also meeting new people, and tryingbto talk with them.
• I'm selfish, and selfless to a point of utter guilt trippyness.
• I'm often not happy, in a "twilight zone" of emotion.
• I have no easy smile.
• I'm too pressuring on myself that my stress overburdens me, and I collapse into a depressed sickness, or I sleep.
• I'm too self-concerned of how people see me as, especially irl.
• I have unlucky classes.
• Can boil over my arnger due to everything above piling down on me.
• I have concerns with my own faith, and if it is real.
• I have suspicion anything could be out to kill me.
• I'm paranoiac about dying.
• I fear death.
• Has no such thing called a "study".
• Sympathetic to a point.
• In constant need of someone to let me vent my problems to.
• Easily think I am betrayed by people.
• Have no idea how my life will turn out.
• Ok, to keep this list from going on, I'll stop it here.

 

[SavageWizzrobe]

Another one, I tend to crack easily under certain kinds of pressure. And while I'm here, I also have anxiety problems (I occasionally have full-blown panic attacks), I sometimes put too much stress on myself, and I have a lot of personal codes that I follow. Well, that last one isn't too bad, but I might have too many personal codes, and I find it hard to break free of them. I guess that means I'm not adventurous or spontaneous enough, which may lead to relationship problems for me.

 

[A Link In Time]

Hmm, my biggest problem is that I'm a bit hasty when it comes to making decisions. Sometimes it pays off, but a lot of the time I'm left wishing I had thought over the situation more before acting on it.

Other than that, I feel that I struggle to maintain contact with people over can extended period of time. I don't have problems starting conversations, but I do have problems simply asking someone if they want to hang out sometime. I'm a little shy and nervous when it comes to that.

 

[Dan]

That i can't write out a post listing my weaknesses so lowly ass holes can make cheap shots at me is probably my biggest weakness. It's sadly one I have to live with and I cry every night knowing this weakness resides In me.

 

[Scarfed]

That I have a hard time taking initiative to do things. Especially talk with friends and do important stuff.

 

[Terminus]

I lash out at people if they hurt me.

 

[Vanessa28]

What bothers me about myself? THE FACT I'M ALWAYS TOO ACTIVE!! I'm so active I woke up after only 2 and a half hours of sleep!!

 

[DoomDash]

Well I used to not like that I was so hairy, because obviously the cleaner more metro male has been "in" for quite awhile now. But after being an adult for a long time now, I've basically found out that I'm a niche. Yeah it's obviously more ideal to be what is in, but some girls specifically liked me for my "dark features" as they called it. One girl specifically asked for a date with me because she likes hairy guys.

So yeah I don't really dislike it now, just accept it, but I used to hate it.

I actually never had a problem getting girls, I've literally never even had to ask a girl out before, all of my girlfriends have asked me, and now I'm married.

So for all my hairy guys, don't worry, it gets better .

Oh and I also was always jealous of dudes who could pull off that nice clean looking emo hair when it gets long. My hair looks terrible long and starts getting curly.

 

[Emma]

There's one thing always on my mind. The rib injury I got when I was very young. It never healed properly. I can't be too active, I can't easily bend forward. I can't put pressure on it. I can't run for that long before it becomes too painful. It's held me back and prevented me from being able to take jobs I could have otherwise gotten. I should be able to get a stocking job at a store but I simply can't do it. It'd get too painful and I'd be a liability to the store. I may drop something.