Probably don't want to read this, or even care about it, for that matter do not read it.
So, my cool/awesome brother just proposed to a nice girl that he has been hanging out with for a while, sounds great right, here's is my selfish and foolish little problem.
Every one of my siblings that has gotten married no longer is nearly as cool: my oldest brother was reduced from a awesome R&C(+others) gamer to a insurance salesman; my second brother's wife started a business that isn't quite profitable, so he is working a job perpetrate from helping her out with that, while going to college; and my oldest sister used to just take me and my younger sister out to do stuff, mostly free things, but it was a lot of fun nonetheless, now she has two kids and moved about two hours away...
So, from this evidence(and more that I will not take the time to type) I have come to conclude that marriage makes people less fun/cool/awesome.
For most people this isn't really a problem(I assume, I cannot really say), but for me I rely on my family for most everything from hanging out to help with homework(as my current RL friend count is still at 0), so each and every loss hurts, it hurts bad.
Now remember, this is my coolest(and last) brother we are talking about, he has a out-standing record for being the smartest(read genius) and coolest guy at my college.
Now I am attempting to follow roughly in his footsteps, as I have interests similar to his(I actually do, I am not just following him for the sake of it)
However if marriage does to him what it has done to all my other siblings, then I will likely not really be able to ask him for help with my homework,and since I am not a genius, I will most likely need that help really badly.
Basically I don't want to have to go through college without his amazing help , and now that he is getting married I am afraid he will not really have time, in the same manner as my other siblings,,,
Yeah, I did warn you to not read this, and I did mean it.
Every one of my siblings that has gotten married no longer is nearly as cool: my oldest brother was reduced from a awesome R&C(+others) gamer to a insurance salesman; my second brother's wife started a business that isn't quite profitable, so he is working a job perpetrate from helping her out with that, while going to college; and my oldest sister used to just take me and my younger sister out to do stuff, mostly free things, but it was a lot of fun nonetheless, now she has two kids and moved about two hours away...
So, from this evidence(and more that I will not take the time to type) I have come to conclude that marriage makes people less fun/cool/awesome.
For most people this isn't really a problem(I assume, I cannot really say), but for me I rely on my family for most everything from hanging out to help with homework(as my current RL friend count is still at 0), so each and every loss hurts, it hurts bad.
Now remember, this is my coolest(and last) brother we are talking about, he has a out-standing record for being the smartest(read genius) and coolest guy at my college.
Now I am attempting to follow roughly in his footsteps, as I have interests similar to his(I actually do, I am not just following him for the sake of it)
However if marriage does to him what it has done to all my other siblings, then I will likely not really be able to ask him for help with my homework,and since I am not a genius, I will most likely need that help really badly.
Basically I don't want to have to go through college without his amazing help , and now that he is getting married I am afraid he will not really have time, in the same manner as my other siblings,,,
Yeah, I did warn you to not read this, and I did mean it.