I go over and suggest some songs to play. The DJ agrees with me on this one, and plays this song.
[video=youtube;bBb-J0hcBQA]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bBb-J0hcBQA[/video]
I'm sitting at a table, the least formally dressed, with a drink next to me that says "I want to be part of the party, but i don't want to spoil your fun"