Okay, here we go.
I have been talking to a girl for a little over 2 weeks. Our bond grew very quickly and we have told each other things that we would never tell anyone else, we trust each other, so she and I say. However, she's been in a "relationship" with someone for a long time but it was an online relationship, she never met the guy and she said it's been 2 weeks since they talked, that he stopped talking to her. Which is why she started looking agian, well not really looking but flirting. She was a flirt with me at first but things changed as I said above.
Now I've asked her many questions about things over teh course of 2 weeks, I told her I wasn't willing to be her spongedoll, someone to for her to wipe her tears on or rebound on if her "relationship" doesn't work out. She said she had no intention of using me and that her feelings were growing for me the more we talked about our pasts and what not. Because we have so much in common growing up and stuff.
I've told her that I feel like she has been just flirting with me and telling me what I want to hear to keep me around but she insisted that wasn't the case. Then wednesday, I guess we got into another deep discussion and I felt like she just wanted to be solely friends, so I told her we should take a day or two off from each other, my reason was so that I could calm my feelings for her down and see her as a friend. Well it hasn't really been 2 days she contacted me earlier first(so I thought she was thinking about me and that she actually cared)and I told her I missed talking to her heheh, she said the same(though didn't really seem it, maybe it's just me?)and I asked her if she saw us together in the future some time just so I could know for certain. She said it was possible, if we met and hung out some. She said she would like that.
Now here's the problem. A friend of mine believes she's just saying things to keep me around as someone to fall back on or whatever, that's she's jsut playing with my mind. Sometimes I feel that's true, other times I don't. She did say I was the first person she could ever be herself with and that she likes talking to me and stuff of that nature. But there's been something bugging me, I told her to add me on Facebook and she said "I will later" although that day my account was deleted. So when we firstly did Skype she was talking about facebook(and the skype thing was so weird and awkward she was realy nervous, as was I aha)and I told her to add me again and I posted my facebook page so she could just add me she then said "wait, you want me to add you now?!" I was shocked, it got me thinking, what does she have to hide?
After skype she said she tried to add me but she couldn't because I deleted my fb again. People are telling me to stay away from her, but I'm confused.
Do you people think she's playing me for a fool or being serious? The Facebook ordeal has really got me thinking though because I don't see the problem with it, she has to be hiding something I feel.
I have been talking to a girl for a little over 2 weeks. Our bond grew very quickly and we have told each other things that we would never tell anyone else, we trust each other, so she and I say. However, she's been in a "relationship" with someone for a long time but it was an online relationship, she never met the guy and she said it's been 2 weeks since they talked, that he stopped talking to her. Which is why she started looking agian, well not really looking but flirting. She was a flirt with me at first but things changed as I said above.
Now I've asked her many questions about things over teh course of 2 weeks, I told her I wasn't willing to be her spongedoll, someone to for her to wipe her tears on or rebound on if her "relationship" doesn't work out. She said she had no intention of using me and that her feelings were growing for me the more we talked about our pasts and what not. Because we have so much in common growing up and stuff.
I've told her that I feel like she has been just flirting with me and telling me what I want to hear to keep me around but she insisted that wasn't the case. Then wednesday, I guess we got into another deep discussion and I felt like she just wanted to be solely friends, so I told her we should take a day or two off from each other, my reason was so that I could calm my feelings for her down and see her as a friend. Well it hasn't really been 2 days she contacted me earlier first(so I thought she was thinking about me and that she actually cared)and I told her I missed talking to her heheh, she said the same(though didn't really seem it, maybe it's just me?)and I asked her if she saw us together in the future some time just so I could know for certain. She said it was possible, if we met and hung out some. She said she would like that.
Now here's the problem. A friend of mine believes she's just saying things to keep me around as someone to fall back on or whatever, that's she's jsut playing with my mind. Sometimes I feel that's true, other times I don't. She did say I was the first person she could ever be herself with and that she likes talking to me and stuff of that nature. But there's been something bugging me, I told her to add me on Facebook and she said "I will later" although that day my account was deleted. So when we firstly did Skype she was talking about facebook(and the skype thing was so weird and awkward she was realy nervous, as was I aha)and I told her to add me again and I posted my facebook page so she could just add me she then said "wait, you want me to add you now?!" I was shocked, it got me thinking, what does she have to hide?
After skype she said she tried to add me but she couldn't because I deleted my fb again. People are telling me to stay away from her, but I'm confused.
Do you people think she's playing me for a fool or being serious? The Facebook ordeal has really got me thinking though because I don't see the problem with it, she has to be hiding something I feel.
