I'm not messy, nor am I insanely organized. I just
generally like a tidy place with the most used items in an easily accessible place.
My wife though is the one that really likes things to be tidy, and her standard is higher than mine. For dishes, I generally focus on dishes, but for her, doing the dishes is cleaning the kitchen and dining room.
As you get older, you find you like things to be tidier. For me, I prefer a controlled chaos. It's clean, but stuff has a proper place, that is, most used items are stored in an easy to access place. My desk my wife hates, but there's a logic as to why I have it the way I do.
I'm only extremely organized when it comes to my guitars and other musical equipment. I like my guitars to be clean, I like them to hold their tuning, so
constant maintenance to keep them that way is required.
Plus, they're guitars, so in the process of upkeep, playing them is an inevitable consequence.