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misskitten

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It took me a couple of years before I got a Facebook account. I guess I could say I use it to a degree now, but the account is more so that people can get in touch with me if they are unable to otherwise. Like I lost my phone some weeks back and had to let people know so that they wouldn't try to call or text until I got myself a new simcard. And likeways I could let them know when the problem was fixed.

I have some friends and family who are very active on FB, but I rarely visit anyone's walls. I just find most things people post there uninteresting. I much more prefer twitter where I can choose to follo what I want to follow and people can independently choose to follow me. It doesn't have to be a mutual thing, like it has to be on FB.

So mostly I just go by FB to see if anyone has sent me any messages or the like. If there's nothing new I just move on to my other sites. Twitter, on the other hand I'm on most of the time I'm on the computer, lol
 
Facebook is the newest and most effective drug on the market. Not only has it managed to draw nearly a billion users into its doors but its locked them up and rolled them away.

Social networking is nothing short of an unhealthy addiction. What smoking was for many centuries prior and the position such substances as marijuana, cocaine, crack, and methamphetamine occupied last century, Facebook holds now. While overall positive, technology has a much darker side to it that many fail to realize. Facebook is the embodiment of those vices. Not only is it an effective way to lure the ignorant masses but it gradually draws the user closer resulting in a loss of time, health, and communication abilities.

Never before has it been easier for the police to gain tabs on people. In times past, they actually had to search in phone books and consult with neighbors to find out where someone lived, their daily schedule, activities, interests, etc. Now, they have access to all of that information and more on Facebook. No matter how many times people are warned, they still post highly personal information on Facebook. I'm not saying everyone falls victim but enough do this to make it a serious problem.

Also, Facebook eliminates the individual and embraces the larger community. It's a perfect model of socialism. The majority of the world's conservatives today argue that the education system is letting kids down and has become extremely degraded. They're partially right. What happened to focusing on the individual's work? Group projects are pushed for more and more vocally. Why has analyzing of the student's particular strengths and weaknesses vanished? Some standardized surveys that no one will reply to seem to be the solution-everyone is merely another statistic. What happened to teachers actively leading the classroom and encouraging even requiring participation? Now it's simply a bunch of slapped together lectures that rehash a textbook in an overly simplified way. Facebook applies those same ideas from education and applies them to a more general world situation. You literally can't log in without being swamped about information from all of your contacts. Who cares where Martha is going out to eat dinner, when Tommy returns from his bike ride, or why Thomas decided to take his wife out to eat?! This is all extremely superfluous information that the site endeavors to stuff up the user's face. And yet people embrace it. And they therefore become specks of dust among a pile of information few people care about. You may think you're sending information to just one person but hundreds of others are able to view it. You're merely another number, another statistic, another page among more than 800 million. What's a needle in a haystack?

Another major problem Facebook causes is loss of socializing ability. This isn't particularly serious just yet but stick around for a few years and you will see the problem escalate. There are already some people who simply can't live without sending a new message. I don't wish too be redundant here but seriously stop notifying us of every little action you're performing!!! Grrr!! No one honestly needs to know when you're using the toilet. These people are literally addicted to their electronic devices. They gradually lose contact with reality. The virtual world becomes reality to this group. I'm glad counselors and faculty in school are raising awareness about this issue. This is a serious problem that has come to characterize our present generation and the fire needs to be extinguished before it haunts today's youth for the rest of their lives.

I honestly did not anticipate this response being so lengthy, however, I wanted nothing short of a thorough response for something that is plaguing the adolescents and young adults of the Western world especially. There are certain necessities in life without which we cannot live without. Facebook is not one of them.
 
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Are you seriously comparing Facebook to meth and crack addictions....really?

Not that I'm "choosing sides" here, but A_LINK_IN_TIME's assessment isn't too far off. There are some people whose life revolves around Facebook (or the internet in general), and many cases of such can resemble a drug addiction. Some people might even suffer from withdrawal symptoms without it. Sure, this does not happen to every Facebook user, and there might be other factors involved, but the problem is all too real. Facebook seems be becoming its own form of escapism, which is good in moderation, but can often lead to one losing one's touch with reality in excess. I've seen this with my own eyes.
 

Purple_Rupee

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Facebook is the newest and most effective drug on the market. Not only has it managed to draw nearly a billion users into its doors but its locked them up and rolled them away.

Social networking is nothing short of an unhealthy addiction. What smoking was for many centuries prior and the position such substances as marijuana, cocaine, crack, and methamphetamine occupied last century, Facebook holds now. While overall positive, technology has a much darker side to it that many fail to realize. Facebook is the embodiment of those vices. Not only is it an effective way to lure the ignorant masses but it gradually draws the user closer resulting in a loss of time, health, and communication abilities.

Never before has it been easier for the police to gain tabs on people. In times past, they actually had to search in phone books and consult with neighbors to find out where someone lived, their daily schedule, activities, interests, etc. Now, they have access to all of that information and more on Facebook. No matter how many times people are warned, they still post highly personal information on Facebook. I'm not saying everyone falls victim but enough do this to make it a serious problem.

Also, Facebook eliminates the individual and embraces the larger community. It's a perfect model of socialism. The majority of the world's conservatives today argue that the education system is letting kids down and has become extremely degraded. They're partially right. What happened to focusing on the individual's work? Group projects are pushed for more and more vocally. Why has analyzing of the student's particular strengths and weaknesses vanished? Some standardized surveys that no one will reply to seem to be the solution-everyone is merely another statistic. What happened to teachers actively leading the classroom and encouraging even requiring participation? Now it's simply a bunch of slapped together lectures that rehash a textbook in an overly simplified way. Facebook applies those same ideas from education and applies them to a more general world situation. You literally can't log in without being swamped about information from all of your contacts. Who cares where Martha is going out to eat dinner, when Tommy returns from his bike ride, or why Thomas decided to take his wife out to eat?! This is all extremely superfluous information that the site endeavors to stuff up the user's face. And yet people embrace it. And they therefore become specks of dust among a pile of information few people care about. You may think you're sending information to just one person but hundreds of others are able to view it. You're merely another number, another statistic, another page among more than 800 million. What's a needle in a haystack?

Another major problem Facebook causes is loss of socializing ability. This isn't particularly serious just yet but stick around for a few years and you will see the problem escalate. There are already some people who simply can't live without sending a new message. I don't wish too be redundant here but seriously stop notifying us of every little action you're performing!!! Grrr!! No one honestly needs to know when you're using the toilet. These people are literally addicted to their electronic devices. They gradually lose contact with reality. The virtual world becomes reality to this group. I'm glad counselors and faculty in school are raising awareness about this issue. This is a serious problem that has come to characterize our present generation and the fire needs to be extinguished before it haunts today's youth for the rest of their lives.

I honestly did not anticipate this response being so lengthy, however, I wanted nothing short of a thorough response for something that is plaguing the adolescents and young adults of the Western world especially. There are certain necessities in life without which we cannot live without. Facebook is not one of them.



I agree how some people can let themselves be sucked into the "virtual social traps" so to speak is a crying shame. But it's like poison for the mind all you can do is sit back and

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Hahaha! getting pretty good with these things. What you don't think so!?!

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LOL! did it again! :P
 
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misskitten

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Another major problem Facebook causes is loss of socializing ability. This isn't particularly serious just yet but stick around for a few years and you will see the problem escalate. There are already some people who simply can't live without sending a new message. I don't wish too be redundant here but seriously stop notifying us of every little action you're performing!!! Grrr!! No one honestly needs to know when you're using the toilet. These people are literally addicted to their electronic devices. They gradually lose contact with reality. The virtual world becomes reality to this group. I'm glad counselors and faculty in school are raising awareness about this issue. This is a serious problem that has come to characterize our present generation and the fire needs to be extinguished before it haunts today's youth for the rest of their lives.

I find it ironic to find this argument on an online forum. Sure, I can agree with you that the way a lot of people chooses to use Facebook - announcing every mundane thing they're about to do or have done - not really something I'm interested in reading, not really anything I think is necessary to put online, but okay.

Social networking isn't limited to sites like Facebook, myspace, twitter, google+, tumblr - who all define themselves as social networking sites - but all sites that in one way or another offer you the ability to communicate with other people online - like forums - like here. I can agree with you that virtual communication can become like an addiction and in some aspects that addiction can become a problem - but we cannot just focus on the bad and ignore the good about virtual socializing. Social networking sites like Facebook can be dead useful for real life friends to organize real life social events, meet-ups, etc. And virtual socializing can become a great way for us to find other people who share our interests all over the world - you're no longer limited to the people in your immediate area.

There are good and bad sides to everything.
 
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It's ridiculous to pick one negative effect of a website, most probably based on nothing other than pure opinion, then tie it in with a ridiculous claim about socialism and wrap it all up with a comparison to class A drugs.
 

cozylamps

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I simply use it to keep in touch with people I know I wouldn't get the pleasure of seeing all too often. I also like to post nifty things I find on the internet. There's absolutely nothing wrong with not having a Facebook, I never used mine until I actually found people I wanted to keep in touch with. My whole problem is the people who abuse the network to high heaven with pointless updates every 5 minutes.
 

Vanessa28

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If yopu talk about the substitute for drugs you could easily say TWITTER is more addictive than Facebook. I have facebook for years now and what I notice is how some people simply don't protect their profiles close enough. They make it available for everybody. Simply make it friends only and you choose hwat friends you allow right? So if you're concerned about your privacy and want to stay in touch with some people you hardly see simply keep your contacts limited to these people only. I have a lot of friends on facebook who live in the US and who I cannot contact else besides Facebook. And in some cases I like to keep it that way. I use it to participate in hockey groups and keep myself updated about my personal interests. What I really hate are these annoying applications which all ask you for permission to your profile etc. I hate that. And most are useless anyway.
Facebook is definitely not a MUST for people. It is not like we can't live without. It is more a way to interact with people around the globe but there should never be a pressure on people by telling them to get the heck an account. If you don't want facebook, just don't. Because people have it doesn't mean you have to follow the crowd only because of the hype
 
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Facebook is definitely not a necessity, but it's a great way to keep in touch with family or friends that you don't see often.
 

Cody

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I feel like not having a Facebook nowadays is like not having a mailbox 50 years ago. Sure, you don't NEED one, but you're missing out on a basic form of communication that people use to keep in contact with each other.
 
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Not really a necessity, just a way of keeping updated and chatting with your buddies. For some people (probably the people that wanted you to join), they're on facebook for hours doing something (idk what, i facebook for like 10 minutes).
 
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I find it strange that so many people DO have one. I think we should start a boycott of Facebook. All it leads to (from what I have seen) is cyberbullying and lives of many teenagers that will be haunted forever for something they said or a picture they posted on this unsafe website.
 

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