Wow. That was a display of classic online hostility. Good thing I'm used to forums, or I might've taken that personally.
Disagreeing with someone else's opinion is no excuse to offend them. Much less to label them. That should be obvious, people.
You don't win an argument through intimidation.
Remember folks, calling someone out for their absurd comments and incorrect statements is now intimidation. Welcome to 2016.
Since a public forum is about using rethoric skills to defend positions, it has a lot in common with some skills you learn in Law School. The first thing you learn in Law School is that the truth is relative and that each point of view has its merits as well as its flaws. If you insist the other is wrong and that his point is invalid, that will work against you. It'll show you're unprepared to deal with different theories on the same subject and therefore your conclusion is considered inadequate, even if you have your facts straight.
The truth is relative iff the evidence is vague/incomplete. When evidence presented is factually incorrect and/or when there is evidence to show one "point of view" is factually wrong, then the truth is not relative. The truth is often discernible.
Some considerations below:
1) Your gender DOES shape your personal experience. People aren't that idealised genderless entity some people want to believe. There are things men only enjoy doing among other men, just as activities women enjoy doing among other women.
Can a man identify with a woman's experience, and vice versa? Yes. Can he identify with ALL female experiences? The answer is no, he can't. Just as a heterosexual woman won't dig checking beautiful, scantily clad women, a heterosexual male won't dig having a gay man sit right next to him,flirt with him and finally invite him to his bedroom.
Not everything is to be experienced by both genders. Wishful thinking won't change reality to make it suit your ideal world. If you're old enough to be married or at least to share a roof with someone, you know that.
Of course your sex shapes your experience. Being male and being female are different. Our bodies are different, as are our minds. This is neither biology class nor psychology class, so I won't delve deeper, but suffice it to say no one said anything to the contrary.
2) And yes, FFXV is a boy's club. That's an obvious observation anyone can make. It's not a sexist, SJW, left-wing, whatever you want to call it. It's plain, obvious observation.
And no, it isn't a "boy's club". It's a game with an all-male protagonist cast. If that makes it a boy's club in your mind, then it's 100% an internalized concept in
your head. No one else's. If it bothers you, it is because there is something wrong with
you.
Again, in events where the protagonist is female, or the cast is all-female, where is the problem for male players? When have those types of protagonists ever been called an "all girl's club"? When has there been outcry at the lack of being able to relate to those characters? When have gamers ever said "We just can't relate to Jade/Ada Wong/Samus/Claire Redfield because she's a woman?"
Video games are about removing yourself from reality. They're about assuming another identity. You become the character on screen. You control his or her movements, actions, etc.. You don't have to relate to the them to control them. The relating aspects come into play through story-telling.
Story-telling can make character motives more clear or more ambiguous. It can reveal the thoughts/feelings of the protagonist. Story can make a protagonist more or less relatable, depending on how the story goes. I've played games where I didn't like the main character, sex notwithstanding. It has nothing to do with the sex of the avatar. Relate-ability comes through story telling, not by sex of the characters.
If the story teller feels that having an all-male cast will provide a better story, because the characters will be able to "be themselves", and not have to change to accommodate a female character, that isn't sexist. If the story teller feels that these characters will be more approachable to the gamer, that isn't sexist.
Repeating my words in the previous post, the problem lies in the JUSTIFICATION given for the game to have an exclusively all-male main cast. Again,what was the justification? That playing as a male character feels more normal to players. I'm a woman and I say: No, it doesn't. It was a prejudiced and chauvinistic opinion, which shows the overall mentality of some developers remains pretty much the same where male and female genders are concerned.
The problem with going back and trying to say that you said something you didn't say is that we can all go back and re-read what you wrote and see that this isn't what you said. And if this is what you
meant to say, well, that's a different issue. Because what you said and what you meant to say are different.
You didn't complain about the justification. You made a couple of strawman arguments, borrowed an extremely misleading statistic, and then complained that [male] developers "just don't get it."
I'm not sure to which mentality you refer. Is it the mentality that most gamers are male? Is the idea that a business will cater to the greatest common denominator difficult to understand? Most of the people that will play this game are males. That doesn't mean that this is a game for males. It simply means the majority of the consumers that will play this game are males.
The approachability comes, not from having mostly males play the game, but from the fact that (according to the story-teller), the
characters in the game will be able to "be themselves". It's this freedom to be themselves that will make the game more approachable to the player, not the fact that they're an all-male cast played by males.
The difference is subtle, but it's important.
The fact that you feel this is sexist is evidence (circumstantial) that you have been trained to view the world from a feminist view point. The only people who make a big deal out of this are those with such a mentality as yours.
It would be more forgivable for you to say "I'm a girl and I don't want to play as a boy," than to try to twist this into some chauvinistic/gender issue. That sort of regressive ideology has no place in video games.