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No, the question has nothing to do with sexuality.
But when you're in a casual gathering or work do you enjoy the company of girls or boys most?
When I was younger I preferred to hang out with girls more than guys. Although my closest friends were guys, in school I tended to avoid the guys and sit with girls at lunch or on the bus. They were all girls who were interested in video games and other geeky stuff, otherwise. My circle of friends had a pretty equal mix of girls and guys, actually. But most guys were far more interested in sports than I was or had too much of an extroverted personality type that was just never compatible with my much more introverted nature. I found gals to be a lot more chill and tolerable back then.
That's all different now. To put it bluntly I find a lot of girls I work with and encounter now to be awfully pushy, rude, and standoffish. Not all of them, obviously. Most are pretty sweet. However, it seems like guys are a lot more chill by comparison, are easier to joke with, more approachable, and make a lot fewer unreasonable demands. The girls gotta get all up in other people's business. In my experience it seems like girls are in a constant state of challenge more than guys. Like they always have something to prove. It can make a lot of em difficult to get along with.
Is it like that for anyone else? Guys can be just the same, for certain.
Is there any particular reason anyone would find that one gender makes for better company than the other?
But when you're in a casual gathering or work do you enjoy the company of girls or boys most?
When I was younger I preferred to hang out with girls more than guys. Although my closest friends were guys, in school I tended to avoid the guys and sit with girls at lunch or on the bus. They were all girls who were interested in video games and other geeky stuff, otherwise. My circle of friends had a pretty equal mix of girls and guys, actually. But most guys were far more interested in sports than I was or had too much of an extroverted personality type that was just never compatible with my much more introverted nature. I found gals to be a lot more chill and tolerable back then.
That's all different now. To put it bluntly I find a lot of girls I work with and encounter now to be awfully pushy, rude, and standoffish. Not all of them, obviously. Most are pretty sweet. However, it seems like guys are a lot more chill by comparison, are easier to joke with, more approachable, and make a lot fewer unreasonable demands. The girls gotta get all up in other people's business. In my experience it seems like girls are in a constant state of challenge more than guys. Like they always have something to prove. It can make a lot of em difficult to get along with.
Is it like that for anyone else? Guys can be just the same, for certain.
Is there any particular reason anyone would find that one gender makes for better company than the other?