Do You Consider Yourself Masculine/feminine? Who Do You Prefer Dating?

[Dan]

So tell me yo!

 

[Dan]

How Feminine or Masculine Are You?

You don't have to be female to be feminine and you don't have to be male to be masculine.
What do you identify more as, you will find you hold traits from both sides of this coin, so why not share yourself with us for a bit.

 

[Salem]

I would say somewhere down the middle, although I would NEVER admit it IRL

 

[misskitten]

Definitely somewhere in the middle.

 

[Mellow Ezlo]

Ya, I'm kind of somewhere in the middle. Most of the time, I'm a very masculine person (at least, I try to be), but there are definitely some feminist qualities about me.

 

[The First Noelle]

I feel that I'm more feminine than masculine, as I see more of the typical feminine qualities in me.

 

[Blue Canary]

I don't know. I never think of stuff as "masculine" or "feminine". I'm sort of just like, I'm me. I'm a person that likes stuff, therefore I buy and do things I like. Sometimes it seems I'm masculine, sometimes it seems I'm feminine, but that's just because of other people's perspective on the world. That has nothing to do with me.

 

[Vanessa28]

I'm feminine but when I get angry ...

 

[43ForceGems]

Well I like to think I'm masculine, even though I don't really like guns, cars, or hunting. I mean guns are cool, but I'm not like super into them. But I don't necessarily think I'm particularly feminine. I don't think I am

And as to who I prefer dating? Well really feminine girls bother me. Not saying I like tomboys, but the girls that have like their purrrrrse, and their lip glosssss, and their make uppppp, and their nailllllls, and high heelssss, and all this crap that most of them don't even enjoy, it just pisses me off. I like a girl to be legit and honest. And... that's the one I'm dating She's feminine, in every way, but she's not a super white girl. And that's what bothers me the most

 

[Firice da Vinci]

The majority of my friends say I act like a girl. I don't know why. I mean, I only have an obsession with long hair, cross-dressing, and Barbie dolls.

 

[*M i d n a*]

I have the right to reserve my silence, but I am pretty sure I lean on the masculine side. And dating...well I've always dated girls, so...

 

[Wolf Sage]

I'm masculine af, boss, though I only have my definition to go on; I dunno what the popular definition of "masculinity" is anymore. Let's see... I like stereotypically masculine things like rugby and MMA, but I am neither a big sports guy nor do I go out of my way to attend sports events or watch them on TV. I like to think that I do 'masculine' things: I eat lots of junk food and meat, I used to practice MMA religiously, and a host of other stereotypically 'masculine' things. Most of my favorite characters and role models are manly figures, as well. I spend the majority of the time drawing huge, hulking masculine characters. And lastly, I have many masculine traits (hairy, unkempt, rugged, etc.), and I often burp, snort, tug at my crotch, etc. (proudly ;J) depending who I am around at the time. I guess that just about covers it.

That isn't to say I don't have traits that some might find 'feminine', though I can only think of a few. For instance, I can cook if I put my mind to it. I am also quite organized; my clothes are stored and hanged in my closet in a certain order. I'm a decent sewperson(?), as well—having learned from watching old ladies. I'd also rather stay home and clean house than go out and have beers 'with the guys.' Lastly, I'm quite a well-mannered guy when the need arises (it's really effed up that this is viewed as an effeminate trait to some).

As far as who I prefer dating... I dunno. I have little need for dating, being the asexual-aromantic guy that I am, which kind of makes it difficult to gauge my masculinity, huh? However, I was quite close to dating a girl once. She was short and petite, and she was some kind of emo/goth combination, which I found really intriguing at the time. She wasn't too girly—she seemed to like gaming and anime—but wasn't too tomboyish, either. The only downside was I found out she was a drug user. I imagine this is the type of woman I'd fall for if I were into humes, save for the drugs part. If I were into men, they'd have to epitomize my personal definition of masculinity from every fiber of their being.

:wolf:

 

[dcgc28]

Well I like to think I'm masculine, even though I don't really like guns, cars, or hunting. I mean guns are cool, but I'm not like super into them. But I don't necessarily think I'm particularly feminine. I don't think I am

And as to who I prefer dating? Well really feminine girls bother me. Not saying I like tomboys, but the girls that have like their purrrrrse, and their lip glosssss, and their make uppppp, and their nailllllls, and high heelssss, and all this crap that most of them don't even enjoy, it just pisses me off. I like a girl to be legit and honest. And... that's the one I'm dating She's feminine, in every way, but she's not a super white girl. And that's what bothers me the most

That's great.

But yeah I'm masculine, I mean I'm not the most masculine but you know I do sports and have been in my share of physical altercations, as for who I like everything 43 said he doesn't like lol not really but I prefer girly girls, or "super white uggs starbucks love shows everynight girls"

 

[AomiArmster]

i am female that has no interest in dating / relationships. i often have felt/behaved more masculine than feminine but in the grand scheme of things i think i would be attracted to both men and women

 

[Dan]

I'm masculine af, boss, though I only have my definition to go on; I dunno what the popular definition of "masculinity" is anymore. Let's see... I like stereotypically masculine things like rugby and MMA, but I am neither a big sports guy nor do I go out of my way to attend sports events or watch them on TV. I like to think that I do 'masculine' things: I eat lots of junk food and meat, I used to practice MMA religiously, and a host of other stereotypically 'masculine' things. Most of my favorite characters and role models are manly figures, as well. I spend the majority of the time drawing huge, hulking masculine characters. And lastly, I have many masculine traits (hairy, unkempt, rugged, etc.), and I often burp, snort, tug at my crotch, etc. (proudly ;J) depending who I am around at the time. I guess that just about covers it.

That isn't to say I don't have traits that some might find 'feminine', though I can only think of a few. For instance, I can cook if I put my mind to it. I am also quite organized; my clothes are stored and hanged in my closet in a certain order. I'm a decent sewperson(?), as well—having learned from watching old ladies. I'd also rather stay home and clean house than go out and have beers 'with the guys.' Lastly, I'm quite a well-mannered guy when the need arises (it's really effed up that this is viewed as an effeminate trait to some).

As far as who I prefer dating... I dunno. I have little need for dating, being the asexual-aromantic guy that I am, which kind of makes it difficult to gauge my masculinity, huh? However, I was quite close to dating a girl once. She was short and petite, and she was some kind of emo/goth combination, which I found really intriguing at the time. She wasn't too girly—she seemed to like gaming and anime—but wasn't too tomboyish, either. The only downside was I found out she was a drug user. I imagine this is the type of woman I'd fall for if I were into humes, save for the drugs part. If I were into men, they'd have to epitomize my personal definition of masculinity from every fiber of their being.

:wolf:

Haha brilliant Wolfy you just made my day.

Personally I feel I can be both, it's more what the situation calls for. For example I won't cry at my attackers like a girl would, I would use my brute manly maleness and destroy them. See where I'm going with this?