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- Mar 26, 2018
Personally I find that differences in beliefs will rarely destroy a relationship for me but that it does limit the scope of a relationship. My best and longest-lasting friends and lovers have beliefs that are similar to mine. I find that the more strongly opposed views I have with friends and acquaintances the harder it is to form or maintain a close bond.
This isn't due to a conscious discrimination on my part but more due to a shared understanding that we are not alike, that there is always going to be a wall between us, that the wrong words can spark a disagreement that will leave the both of us frustrated or disgusted.
I am willing to allow opposing viewpoints into my life because it's healthy if you can treat it with maturity. But...it's a very hard obstacle to overcome when it comes to truly intimate (platonic or otherwise) relationships.
You know, I'm actually really curious about your stance on the Satanic Temple. I'm going to go ahead and assume you're not familiar with it (because most people aren't, not because of an assumed close-mindedness) and provide some examples/context.
First and foremost it's a non-theistic religion (so they do not in any way worship Satan) that focuses on promoting egalitarianism, social justice, benevolence and empathy among all people. It adopted the imagery of and association with Satan because it views the literary Satan as a metaphor for (pragmatic) skepticism, personal autonomy and curiosity and thus uses it as a symbol of an "eternal rebel" against arbitrary authority and social norms.
Personally I think it plays up the Satan imagery too much and that it does more harm than good for their overall image. They use the imagery for the shock value, to draw attention to their actions which are intended to benefit a much wider scope than their own church but I can't shake the suspicion that certain elements within the church leadership take a bit too much pleasure in poking the bear, so to speak. This is essentially the sole reason I am not a member of the Satanic Temple, as their satire, whether or not it actually has antagonistic intent, is rather easily misconstrued.
First off, their tenets are, largely, sentiments that Jesus himself would have a hard time finding issue with.
Secondly, they run the Protect Children Project, which aims to draw attention to and stop the use of corporate punishment and related disciplinary practices in schools by invoking first amendment rights and securing legal aid against schools for any student whose religion opposes the use of physical and psychological abuse. To clarify, this is a service provided to any student whose religion meets the criteria, not just children belonging to the Satanic Temple.
Furthermore they have fought for the rights of non-Christian religions to have the voice they are legally entitled to in otherwise Christian-dominated settings. When Governor Rick Scott of Florida signed a bill allowing student-led prayer in school assemblies, the Satanic Temple was quick to show their support, as the bill didn't specify which religion (their goal being less to promote Satanic worship in schools than to draw media attention, through the absurdist lens of Satanic prayer, to the fact that Muslims, for example, could lead said prayer if they wanted). Similarly, they felt that the Good News Club had a de-facto monopoly on after school religious presence and thus started After School Satan in response to A) again draw attention to the fact that other religions have legal rights to follow suit and B ) teach kids empathy for others and critical thinking skills to enable them to make good life choices (which, admittedly, is partially aimed at avoiding indoctrination but nevertheless is a valuable life skill outside of the religious sphere).
Oh, and they've also offered protection to Muslim-Americans (in their words "We would be glad to escort you where you need to go without advertising our presence–just big dudes walking you where you need to be") following the 2015 terrorist attacks in Paris due to concerns of it triggering a fresh surge of anti-Islamic sentiment and crimes domestically.
I'll admit that they target Christianity...almost exclusively but that's mostly due to America's religious climate and political hypocrisy towards non-Christian faiths. The Satanic Temple is obviously biased towards non-theistic worldviews but they do respect the religious choices of others and fight to defend their rights to those choices, albeit often in ways that border on the absurd and with satire that can be hard to identify as such.
I really respect this and love seeing this stance from a religious individual. As a non-theist I'll be raising my child/ren to know what my SO and I believe (or more accurately don't), but also with a general overview of the various faiths of the world. They'll be told why we don't believe in them but also that if they choose to believe in something (and preferably once they're adults so they can make a decision that's based more on personal deliberation and discovery than something like peer pressure for example) that's perfectly fine with us.
This isn't due to a conscious discrimination on my part but more due to a shared understanding that we are not alike, that there is always going to be a wall between us, that the wrong words can spark a disagreement that will leave the both of us frustrated or disgusted.
I am willing to allow opposing viewpoints into my life because it's healthy if you can treat it with maturity. But...it's a very hard obstacle to overcome when it comes to truly intimate (platonic or otherwise) relationships.
In terms of like, religious, I'mma go ahead and say I don't think I could be friends with someone who was seriously a Satanist. Like, call me old-fashioned, but there's just something a little off-putting about someone choosing to identify with the teaching of evil. It's like if there was a religion that supported I dunno, like punching kittens, puppies, babies, and hamsters. I think I'd be a little wary of someone that was like "well, yeah, I obviously go in for all that and I'm going to a kitten punching next week." It isn't just that they're harming another creature, it's that out of all the potential ideologies they chose that one?! What kind of person chooses that one! .
You know, I'm actually really curious about your stance on the Satanic Temple. I'm going to go ahead and assume you're not familiar with it (because most people aren't, not because of an assumed close-mindedness) and provide some examples/context.
First and foremost it's a non-theistic religion (so they do not in any way worship Satan) that focuses on promoting egalitarianism, social justice, benevolence and empathy among all people. It adopted the imagery of and association with Satan because it views the literary Satan as a metaphor for (pragmatic) skepticism, personal autonomy and curiosity and thus uses it as a symbol of an "eternal rebel" against arbitrary authority and social norms.
Personally I think it plays up the Satan imagery too much and that it does more harm than good for their overall image. They use the imagery for the shock value, to draw attention to their actions which are intended to benefit a much wider scope than their own church but I can't shake the suspicion that certain elements within the church leadership take a bit too much pleasure in poking the bear, so to speak. This is essentially the sole reason I am not a member of the Satanic Temple, as their satire, whether or not it actually has antagonistic intent, is rather easily misconstrued.
First off, their tenets are, largely, sentiments that Jesus himself would have a hard time finding issue with.
Secondly, they run the Protect Children Project, which aims to draw attention to and stop the use of corporate punishment and related disciplinary practices in schools by invoking first amendment rights and securing legal aid against schools for any student whose religion opposes the use of physical and psychological abuse. To clarify, this is a service provided to any student whose religion meets the criteria, not just children belonging to the Satanic Temple.
Furthermore they have fought for the rights of non-Christian religions to have the voice they are legally entitled to in otherwise Christian-dominated settings. When Governor Rick Scott of Florida signed a bill allowing student-led prayer in school assemblies, the Satanic Temple was quick to show their support, as the bill didn't specify which religion (their goal being less to promote Satanic worship in schools than to draw media attention, through the absurdist lens of Satanic prayer, to the fact that Muslims, for example, could lead said prayer if they wanted). Similarly, they felt that the Good News Club had a de-facto monopoly on after school religious presence and thus started After School Satan in response to A) again draw attention to the fact that other religions have legal rights to follow suit and B ) teach kids empathy for others and critical thinking skills to enable them to make good life choices (which, admittedly, is partially aimed at avoiding indoctrination but nevertheless is a valuable life skill outside of the religious sphere).
Oh, and they've also offered protection to Muslim-Americans (in their words "We would be glad to escort you where you need to go without advertising our presence–just big dudes walking you where you need to be") following the 2015 terrorist attacks in Paris due to concerns of it triggering a fresh surge of anti-Islamic sentiment and crimes domestically.
I'll admit that they target Christianity...almost exclusively but that's mostly due to America's religious climate and political hypocrisy towards non-Christian faiths. The Satanic Temple is obviously biased towards non-theistic worldviews but they do respect the religious choices of others and fight to defend their rights to those choices, albeit often in ways that border on the absurd and with satire that can be hard to identify as such.
In terms of children, I would like to raise them to at least know about my faith like my parents did, but I think it is something they should choose for themselves.
I really respect this and love seeing this stance from a religious individual. As a non-theist I'll be raising my child/ren to know what my SO and I believe (or more accurately don't), but also with a general overview of the various faiths of the world. They'll be told why we don't believe in them but also that if they choose to believe in something (and preferably once they're adults so they can make a decision that's based more on personal deliberation and discovery than something like peer pressure for example) that's perfectly fine with us.