I originally intended to post this topic in the Mature Discussion but since some members have blocked access upon request or refuse to post in said subforum, I decided to post this here to broaden the discussion. It's slightly more serious in tone and questions than most General Discussion threads but we'll manage.
One of the biggest head scratchers of my social life or rather observance of that of others is the insistence to begin dating at a young age. People have their reasons-a greater sense of security, the urge to become more acquainted with the opposite (or in some cases same) gender, a desire to fit in with the societal norm.
But are teenage relationships worthwhile? I've seen my fair share of guys and girls have their hearts broken whether in real life or on the Internet. Conversely, some relationships are of pure apathy. Neither side particularly cares for the other resulting in a hollow display of affection. If you're not going to treat a partner seriously then maybe you should reconsider.
Yet there's the nuance of treating dating too seriously and causing major problems for yourself and your family. Some couples become delusional and partake in sex affairs leading to premature pregnancy. The guy then usually deserts the girl whose life is squandered to care for the child. Forget higher education or a horizon for a brighter future, you've got a kid ot focus on.
Overall, teenagers appear to get themselves in more trouble than happiness with hookups. If you think I'm wrong, go ahead. Play the devil's advocate. What are your thoughts on the topic? Do you embrace my position or are you diametrically opposed to it? Hit me with your best shot.
One of the biggest head scratchers of my social life or rather observance of that of others is the insistence to begin dating at a young age. People have their reasons-a greater sense of security, the urge to become more acquainted with the opposite (or in some cases same) gender, a desire to fit in with the societal norm.
But are teenage relationships worthwhile? I've seen my fair share of guys and girls have their hearts broken whether in real life or on the Internet. Conversely, some relationships are of pure apathy. Neither side particularly cares for the other resulting in a hollow display of affection. If you're not going to treat a partner seriously then maybe you should reconsider.
Yet there's the nuance of treating dating too seriously and causing major problems for yourself and your family. Some couples become delusional and partake in sex affairs leading to premature pregnancy. The guy then usually deserts the girl whose life is squandered to care for the child. Forget higher education or a horizon for a brighter future, you've got a kid ot focus on.
Overall, teenagers appear to get themselves in more trouble than happiness with hookups. If you think I'm wrong, go ahead. Play the devil's advocate. What are your thoughts on the topic? Do you embrace my position or are you diametrically opposed to it? Hit me with your best shot.