I also check around my bed every night before I can lay in it. I shake the covers and pillows and look on the walls and by the sides of the bed. I feel you bro :(
I am really afraid of spiders. It's something I don't talk much about and I try to act "manly" when the topic of spiders is ever brought up, but they freak me the **** out like you don't even know. If evolution had given spiders wings, I would kill myself as soon as possible.