Okay, I now understand where you're coming from.
I might have jumped to that conclusion that only one party was just expected to take perspective, as when it does come to debates, I don't think the point is to win an argument, it's to come to an understanding.
And that's really all I meant by...
You literally argued that someone should see things from a different perspective, and when I acknowledged that that goes both ways, there was suddenly an argument for why it doesn't go both ways.
Does taking perspective go both ways or not?