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Blue Canary

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Tomorrow I'm going to my aunt's house for a memorial day barbecue. I feel like we're just using memorial day as an excuse to get together because I can't remember the last time we've ever done something for memorial day as a family, but I don't really mind. i'll have my 3ds anyway

I'm also doing a memorial day barbeque at my aunt's house. Well, my great aunt. And it's for my cousin's graduation.
 

Terminus

If I was a wizard this wouldn't be happening to me
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I think this orange juice got transmuted
 

Terminus

If I was a wizard this wouldn't be happening to me
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You know what's on my mind? My disgusting excuse of a mother. I made a comment to my dad to the effect of "alright if your advice screws this up it's on you" and she stomped in the kitchen and blew her ****ing lid. That self righteous piece of human trash seems to labor under the delusion that she can be nasty, mean, demanding, and outright horrible to me and my dad and STILL be entitled to respect.

Timeline of events:
- She-devil stomps into kitchen and screams at me
- I tactfully try to ignore her
- She starts calling me nasty names and screaming "**** YOU"
- "If you can's afford to move out then why did you buy a computer" because a one-time expense isn't the same thing as having that much in expenses MONTHLY you insufferable ****wit
- I snap and shout back
- She acts like the self righteous piece of **** she is
- She actually SPITS in my face
- Real ****ing spit
- I had to actually wipe saliva off of my face
- At that point /I/ lose my ****
- She says I "had it coming"
- I have to suppress my desire to grab the food processor and smash her face in with it
- All the while she's still screaming
- Tell her "kindly stop screaming at me you ****ing self righteous asshole"
- She walks into my room and starts chucking **** onto the lawn
- Have to physically keep her from getting near my computer

So yeah that's my ****ing situation. I can't even move out because;
- I can only make 11k USD a year or I lose reduced tuition
- If I make more I have to pay 30-40 grand a year which I just can't ****ing afford
- If I lose my enrollment I also lose my job because I'ma student assistant
- I then end up homeless.

So I can either end up homeless or deal with constant verbal abuse. I can't even flat with friends because they're all way too broke to afford it or joining the military.
 
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Swordbomb

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If you can't read this, you're blind.
You know what's on my mind? My disgusting excuse of a mother. I made a comment to my dad to the effect of "alright if your advice screws this up it's on you" and she stomped in the kitchen and blew her ****ing lid. That self righteous piece of human trash seems to labor under the delusion that she can be nasty, mean, demanding, and outright horrible to me and my dad and STILL be entitled to respect.

Timeline of events:
- She-devil stomps into kitchen and screams at me
- I tactfully try to ignore her
- She starts calling me nasty names and screaming "**** YOU"
- "If you can's afford to move out then why did you buy a computer" because a one-time expense isn't the same thing as having that much in expenses MONTHLY you insufferable ****wit
- I snap and shout back
- She acts like the self righteous piece of **** she is
- She actually SPITS in my face
- Real ****ing spit
- I had to actually wipe saliva off of my face
- At that point /I/ lose my ****
- She says I "had it coming"
- I have to suppress my desire to grab the food processor and smash her face in with it
- All the while she's still screaming
- Tell her "kindly stop screaming at me you ****ing self righteous asshole"
- She walks into my room and starts chucking **** onto the lawn
- Gave to physically keep her from getting near my computer

So yeah that's my ****ing situation. I can't even move out because;
- I can only make 11k USD a year or I lose reduced tuition
- If I make more I have to pay 30-40 grand a year which I just can't ****ing afford
- If I lose my enrollment I also lose my job because I'ma student assistant
- I then end up homeless.

So I can either end up homeless or deal with constant verbal abuse. I can't even flat with friends because they're all way too broke to afford it or joining the military.
Ouch. You must have a hard life. I'm surprised your mother hasn't been arrested for child abuse, if she's been that way for a while now.
Hey, time's will get better though. Just hold on and as soon as the time is right you can kiss that life goodbye and actually own your own home, and maybe even have your own family to be a kind, respectful father of.
 

Emma

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You know what's on my mind? My disgusting excuse of a mother. I made a comment to my dad to the effect of "alright if your advice screws this up it's on you" and she stomped in the kitchen and blew her ****ing lid. That self righteous piece of human trash seems to labor under the delusion that she can be nasty, mean, demanding, and outright horrible to me and my dad and STILL be entitled to respect.

Timeline of events:
- She-devil stomps into kitchen and screams at me
- I tactfully try to ignore her
- She starts calling me nasty names and screaming "**** YOU"
- "If you can's afford to move out then why did you buy a computer" because a one-time expense isn't the same thing as having that much in expenses MONTHLY you insufferable ****wit
- I snap and shout back
- She acts like the self righteous piece of **** she is
- She actually SPITS in my face
- Real ****ing spit
- I had to actually wipe saliva off of my face
- At that point /I/ lose my ****
- She says I "had it coming"
- I have to suppress my desire to grab the food processor and smash her face in with it
- All the while she's still screaming
- Tell her "kindly stop screaming at me you ****ing self righteous asshole"
- She walks into my room and starts chucking **** onto the lawn
- Have to physically keep her from getting near my computer

So yeah that's my ****ing situation. I can't even move out because;
- I can only make 11k USD a year or I lose reduced tuition
- If I make more I have to pay 30-40 grand a year which I just can't ****ing afford
- If I lose my enrollment I also lose my job because I'ma student assistant
- I then end up homeless.

So I can either end up homeless or deal with constant verbal abuse. I can't even flat with friends because they're all way too broke to afford it or joining the military.

I swear our moms are twins. Mine has done the exact same things. But my whole family is aware of how insane she is. She will make things up about me embarrassing things about what I have done wrong, according to her, which she completely made up, and will tell them to other people right in front of me. And she will make demands of what I'm not allowed to do or what I'm required to do, to someone else, while I'm right there. I live on my own with my own money and I am an adult, SHE HAS NO RIGHT TO DO THAT ANYMORE!.

She constantly complains about my spending habits. I do live on my own, but her issue with me is getting a car and getting a job. And I'm in the same financial bind. I cannot save money, I'm having a very hard time saving for a computer. If I do, the government assumes I don't need as much money as I am getting and they'll cut it and then I will be in trouble. My absolute only choice to afford more expensive things is credit. Which I currently have used up about all I can handle for what I do get (but I had no choice).

And a bare minimum wage job will actually cost me money. I'd get less money from my benefits and my expenses would increase. I would need a job at least at $10/hr full time to just break even at what I'm at now (which is not enough to afford a car). She can't understand it's a terrible job market now and no one wants to hire someone without experience, which I can't get despite trying since no one can get experience in the first place without being hired. which you can't get because you need it to get hired in the first place. And... you're stuck in the loop. I have no way out without some really good job offer and every single app I've sent has been ignored.

Just get a job?! Sure. I'd love one that would actually be of any help to me. Just let me go to the job fairy and ask for one. That will work.
 

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