Not sure if serious
If true, i'm sorry you were involved in a situation where you tried to "pray" your sexual orientation away because people convinced you it was sinful.
Oh, ok, to expand on my previously "sarcastic" post (people don't like leaving their names with reputation comments, apparently):
Probably my laptop. I love it.
Because to me, it's along the same line as giving Link a voice. His gender only matters as much as it fits into the story line. A female "link" would not be impossible, just improbable.
Hopefully never. Link is a male character, it would change the dynamic of the story in such a way, it wouldn't feel like "Zelda" anymore. Just my opinion.