Perhaps you need to start thinking about this with a larger mind-frame. This forum is stagnant, and anyone who argues otherwise is in denial. Sure, the latest 3D Zelda game may up your daily view count when it’s finally released god knows when from now, if the site hasn’t torn itself apart before that. But the truth remains that your ability to hold users and retain them in the community is non-existent. I’ve been back here for over a year, and I can’t name you a single person that’s signed up and become a regular contributor since then. In fact, it speaks volumes that I can count on two hands how many people from mid-2010 are still active here, and it’s a testament to what the more grandiose problem is.
Look at these threads, and what do you see? I see “elites” bickering over why they’re more qualified to have a say in this place over others who oppose them. It’s sickening to see that some think that pure membership time somehow propels them forward in the “my opinions matter most, guys” genitalia-measuring contest, and, even worse, I see some that think having the color of the month and a pretty badge/bar next to their name makes them the only qualified individuals on the matter.
You know what the problem is here? There are maybe…… 8 “normal” members out of about 400 actives that are actually having this conversation along with those who have the colors or the early join date next to your name. While you sit here and bicker on who knows best, the rest of the forum is on the outside looking in asking themselves “Why the hell do I care, exactly?”. The Knights and Nobles are stagnant. Promoting your newest mods/community coordinators/whatever the hell new name doesn’t do much for either group. And that’s the problem – this conversation is all about YOU, and what YOU want. And then this negativity seeps into every aspect of this forum. People start to leave because bad vibes are more prevalent than everything else, with colored names to act as a constant reminder that “You’re not special”. How many blogs have there been about this over the past year? It’s annoys the hell out of me.
Members start baiting the mods and other ranks to say “Haha, gotcha, you’re not that great”. This isn’t a new thing. Members actively baited the mod team when I was part of it (One member who’s apparently “left” because of this conversation was one of those people), and it was downright sickening. This fosters such an attitude of resentment and negativity, it’s no wonder everyone tries to bring this place down, whether it’s aiding a member hell bent on dupe accounts and pathetic Youtube videos, or just making sure no one is happy with the evil “administration” via baiting.
And you can go on head and tell me why I’m not qualified to say any of this, or why I’m sorely misinformed or mistaken. You can also type your little paragraph replies to this, and I don’t really care, I won’t be responding to it, although it’s a cute effort. But the truth is that I’m one of the few that’s actually seen this entire thing degrade before my very eyes. Know why I’m one of the few? Everyone else left. They got sick of this thing wearing them down, and, like me, they figured out it wasn’t worth it. How many Knights have been lost? How many site staff members? How many “normal” members? There’s a reason Kitsu, myself, and a few others are the only ones left. I’m wondering why the hell I’m still here anyway.
I told myself I wouldn’t worry with this crap again, and that I’d use this forum as a place to talk about video games. But I slowly realize that it can’t be that for me, unless I get myself banned from this god-forsaken breeding ground for discontent we call the “feedback” section. In fact, I don’t see myself sticking around through the end of the year. It was nice coming back after so long, but I’m beginning to remember why I hung up the towel in the first place. And it wasn’t just because the site owner had some choice words for me, even though I probably deserved most of it.
I kind of wish I had kept the mod job, or I had accepted that stupid Knight offer, just maybe so I’d be more “qualified” to say all of this, which is apparently the thing that matters most here. Hell, I kind of wish I had gotten on my knees and sobbed a heart-felt apology to Mases and the rest of the Nobles back in the day so I could be ever MORE “qualified”. Man, just imagine that; 6 year member, Hylian Noble, Hylian Knight, and Moderator. Everyone would have to listen to me and respect me then, right? No one could claim they're more qualified than me, right? And my opinion would DEFINITELY be worth implementing, right?
That last paragraph is everything that’s wrong with this place.