View Full Version : Do you let others borrow your games?
Mike Pothier
04-07-2008, 06:39 PM
Some have called me a jerk, or paranoid, because I don't let anyone borrow my games. In some cases, I won't even let them play them outside of my presence.
Perhaps I'm a special case. I have multiple games stolen from me, in some cases from family members.
My older brother "borrows" Super Metroid from me to play at his girlfriend's house. Gone.
A friend of mine stays at my house, and inexplicably, a couple games go missing.
The same thing happened a few years ago, when my niece stayed with her BF, who I later found out had this nasty habit of stealing cars. Kiss two of my Resident Evil games goodbye.
Since then, I've been somewhat paranoid about lending out games. People look at me funny when I tell them no, as if to say "look its just a game for crying out loud", but after being burned so many times, I just don't trust anybody.
Am I alone in this?
linkman8
04-07-2008, 06:56 PM
Not at all. I'm very very cautious about others borrowing my games. I used to be a very giving person, almost always letting others borrow my games, but that changed about two years ago.
I let my friend borrow a GBA game, and told him not to start a new game, because it would erase my hard earned progress. What does he do? Deletes my file and starts a new one. As you can see, through bad experience I've learned to be more cautious.
Mehplep
04-08-2008, 06:37 AM
My budget don't like me at all, so I am the one that borrow the games :D A have a N64, GBC and GBA (and some games, of course), but besides that, I borrow from friends. For example, I have borrowed my friends GC recently, and doing a playthrough for both MP-titles for the GC when I have time. I really want to buy some new consoles and games, but I really can't afford anything atm. Getting my first job this summer though, so it will hopefully change some ^^
Smitie
04-08-2008, 01:30 PM
I never borrowed any games or let someone borrow one. My friends at school don't have any interest in games (only one but he has a Xbox360) so nobody asks me if they can borrow one of my games.
zeypherlink
04-08-2008, 07:47 PM
I do sometimes...but I usually got screwed over. Nowadays if a friend wants to borrow a game, they'll have to let me borrow a game too.
Onilink89
04-09-2008, 04:02 AM
to nobody except my best friend.
some of you knew him as Dragonking in the old ZD.
not just games, i even let him borrow my whole consoles.
and he is very carefull when he borrows things.
of course i also borrow from him.
the point is that i can trust him completely.
LINKANDZELDA
04-09-2008, 07:21 PM
I'll admit that I have this one friend who I let borrow a game who let another friend borrow it so not realy.
linkman8
04-10-2008, 08:20 AM
The whole chain borrowing thing going on, huh? I'll tell you one thing, if I let my friend borrow a game and expected it a week later, and then they lent it to someone else, I'd be pretty mad.
LINKANDZELDA
04-11-2008, 03:47 PM
What makes it worse is it was a Zelda game
Mike Pothier
04-11-2008, 03:56 PM
Now you have to go on a bloodhunt. Think Anton Chigurh from No Country for Old Men.
kris94
04-29-2008, 11:59 AM
I let almost all my friend and family members my games, but thats jus because i know I can trust them but I have a rule, whoever borrows my games must buy me the same game if they lose it or wreck it.
Shadow Goris
04-29-2008, 08:05 PM
I would only let my close freinds borrow my games. Because i know they won't steall my games. My cosins....probably not.
PrinceofDarkness
04-30-2008, 04:20 AM
Some have called me a jerk, or paranoid, because I don't let anyone borrow my games.
me either if I lend it out, I ain't gettin' it back.
Since then, I've been somewhat paranoid about lending out games. People look at me funny when I tell them no, as if to say "look its just a game for crying out loud", but after being burned so many times, I just don't trust anybody.
Am I alone in this?
um, people who say it's just a game are idiots. I feel for ya losin' super metroid a ex-homie of mine jacked my copy when I was stayin' with him for a little while after I got laid off from a previous job a few years back and was unemployed. Finding that game now for under 40 dollars anywhere is tough, even ebay. I've wanted to pick it up again so bad but I just don't have the cash. Games are so expensive anybody who says it's just a game really doesn't get out. A 60+dollar investment isn't "just" a game. It be like someone stealing a 200 dollar watch from someone and saying hey it's just a watch man get over it. Sounds pretty ridiculous when put into perspective.
Alder Dragon
05-01-2008, 02:20 PM
I do sometimes...but I usually got screwed over. Nowadays if a friend wants to borrow a game, they'll have to let me borrow a game too.
That's a good idea. Really though, I only trust people related to me to borrow games (which is quite rare) and My girlfriend, because I can trust her with them. I've had terrible experiences with this before though. Once, I had Link to the Past for GBA, had it completed 100%, both games. I let a friend borrow it, and his little brother deletes my account to start a new one. I get it back, and do it all over again in about 3 days, and even managed to get back to 100% complete. I let another friend borrow it, but this time I copied my file to two slots. Somehow, the game goes missing and I never see it again. 10 months later or so, I end up buying another copy for 10 dollars (complete) at the mall, a good find actually. And had to do it all over again, one more time. Since I enjoy the game, I don't really mind going through it over again, but having this happen so much really starts to annoy me.
Most of the people that I know who play games usually bootleg them from pirating sites or emulate them on their computer :p
linkman8
05-01-2008, 05:07 PM
Also in my area, most people don't play the same kind of games as I do, so there aren't exactly many people to trade with/ let them borrow my games. Most people around here play the really hardcore shooter games, which I play once in a while, but as much as fantasy/anime RPG's.
Onilink89
05-07-2008, 08:14 AM
I let almost all my friend and family members my games, but thats jus because i know I can trust them but I have a rule, whoever borrows my games must buy me the same game if they lose it or wreck it.
lol, not with me, sure friends i can trust ok, but family members, especialy the kids.
no no no way!!! and in my familiy there are many spoiled brats.
why you ask, here are a few reasons:
1. most of them don 't know english so they don 't understand the game
2. they can't handle the controlls, they even can 't handle SSBM.
3. they just mash buttons, so thats bad for my controllers.
i can go on and on about this.
about the spoiled brats, i give you one example.
in the time when i bought my n64, we got visit and my little cousin wanted to play it.
i was like, NO WAY!... then he goes to his father and starts complainin. and my mom was like "let the kid play". Ok for once.
this kid took out the expension pak while the console was on with a game and the thing crashed. i was mad. so i went to his father and i said "you gotta buy me a new console"
well i had waranty on that thing but still xD, i claimed the money.
so his father was super mad on him.
God Of Lightning
06-09-2008, 11:33 AM
i actually let someone barrow my Sega Dreamcast with all of its games, and the next day they moved away and i never saw it agian. I MISS JET SET RADIO!!
I traded game with one of my friends once. I got his Waverace 64, and he got one of my games (I forget which though). About a month later, we traded back, and my game was still fine.
Now, a few years ago, another friend said I could borrow Wind Waker, so I brought it home, got up to the Tower of the Gods, and stopped playing. He started complaining about how he wanted it back, so I told him that I'd give it back when I beat the game. About 6 months later, I actually picked up the game again, and started playing through the rest of the game. It was a slow process, but I eventually beat it and gave it back to him. I think I had it about a year or so.
Majora
06-09-2008, 08:56 PM
I don't trust anyone in my family with borrowing games. Especially my cousin.
When I ask to play HIS games, he will turn them on, hand me the controller, yank it back, and play it himself. for hours. until I have to go back home before work.
I lent him a game once, didn't see it back for a year. so I went to his house and I stole it back from him. He "forgot" he had it, even though he had remembered every day between when I lent it and when I showed up.
Twili123prince
08-08-2008, 10:55 PM
I don't even let people touch my games because i'm quite paranoid just like you mike pothier.So don't worry about being paranoid.
blackice_cc
08-09-2008, 08:05 AM
Well, I've never had a game stolen from me, and all the games my friends lost when borrowing them have been recovered. I don't have any bad experiences with lending out games, so I'm pretty generous about it.
RyanNope
08-09-2008, 09:06 AM
I used too, stopped for no special reason. Although I one of my games got stolen (CoD4) when I left it at my brothers house; don't know if that counts as "lost".
MajoraKing12
08-09-2008, 04:55 PM
i don't let any1 barrow games ethier but i only did it once and it was best friend and the game was super mario sunshine. but i think a couple days later i got it back at school. so that was the only time i let someone barrow a game. and i don't have many friends so that was the only time i let someone barrow one of my games.
Midna
08-20-2008, 07:09 PM
Some have called me a jerk, or paranoid, because I don't let anyone borrow my games. In some cases, I won't even let them play them outside of my presence.
Perhaps I'm a special case. I have multiple games stolen from me, in some cases from family members.
My older brother "borrows" Super Metroid from me to play at his girlfriend's house. Gone.
A friend of mine stays at my house, and inexplicably, a couple games go missing.
The same thing happened a few years ago, when my niece stayed with her BF, who I later found out had this nasty habit of stealing cars. Kiss two of my Resident Evil games goodbye.
Since then, I've been somewhat paranoid about lending out games. People look at me funny when I tell them no, as if to say "look its just a game for crying out loud", but after being burned so many times, I just don't trust anybody.
Am I alone in this?
I don't blame you. If I lend out a game, it's only if I'm borowing a game from the same person.
El Bagu
09-04-2008, 02:23 PM
I am sceptical now with the cds .(do we call them so?) They seem vulnerable! Somehow it was better with cartridges (do we call them so?)
(Understand if they cannot make the more advanced games on cartridge)
chrisbg99
09-04-2008, 03:37 PM
Not a lot. I used to be more open to it but when in high school my brother had a tendency on trading games that he traded with someone else and never getting our game's back I kind of soured on the idea.
Though my roommates if they want a game I'll be fine with it since if I want it back I can just go to their rooms and grab it.
Glided Sword
09-08-2008, 06:17 PM
I won't let people borrow my games, I let few people even play them with me. I'm trustworthy myself and will give games back but I don't borrow games and don't lend people games because chances are that I won't get them back.
Stella3000
09-10-2008, 02:10 PM
I would. But no one ever asks.
Mike Pothier
09-10-2008, 04:22 PM
Can I borrow your games?
Stella3000
09-10-2008, 04:26 PM
Well............I don't know if you'd want to.
Hylian Hobbit
09-10-2008, 05:04 PM
I've let a few people borrow my games. But only like once or twice.
Skull_Kid
09-15-2008, 09:18 AM
the onlly persons wich i let them borrow games are my sis,and she lives in the same house as I,and my girlfriend:)
she is now holding my Phantom Hourglass and since it has 2 files and she knows what to do,it's OK,but apart from them,i don't let anyone borrow my games
Kybyrian
09-16-2008, 06:36 PM
I don't let others borrow my games, in fear I won't get them back of course.
Skull_Kid
09-18-2008, 07:33 AM
i don't have reasons to be afraid of that as far as i only borrow them to my GF and SIS
Kat :3
09-26-2008, 10:16 AM
After my old friend stole one of my games I haven't been known to share my games. I have lent my best friend a game and that is all. :3 I don't trust people
LoZfan
09-26-2008, 10:35 AM
I used to let a friend barrow my games but I moved away so that doesn't work to well now. there are my cousines down the road, along with my uncle and grandmother, and my little brother unfortunitly, always has access to my games
:(
zeldagirl1234
10-04-2008, 10:41 PM
Some have called me a jerk, or paranoid, because I don't let anyone borrow my games. In some cases, I won't even let them play them outside of my presence.
Perhaps I'm a special case. I have multiple games stolen from me, in some cases from family members.
My older brother "borrows" Super Metroid from me to play at his girlfriend's house. Gone.
A friend of mine stays at my house, and inexplicably, a couple games go missing.
The same thing happened a few years ago, when my niece stayed with her BF, who I later found out had this nasty habit of stealing cars. Kiss two of my Resident Evil games goodbye.
Since then, I've been somewhat paranoid about lending out games. People look at me funny when I tell them no, as if to say "look its just a game for crying out loud", but after being burned so many times, I just don't trust anybody.
Am I alone in this?
so true. i never EVER let anyone play my games especially not Zelda games or Ds games
LinkOwnsYou
10-07-2008, 06:48 PM
I understand you,
like four or five games are missing since my cousins "borrow" them since that day I keep them in the most dark corner in my room so nobody can see them
LoZfan
10-08-2008, 11:00 AM
that's one way to keep ppl from getting ur games. me and my friend used to swap games for awhile so that we have something different to play. that was a compromise we had back in the day.:D
Akiranon
10-08-2008, 11:38 AM
If someone wants to borrow one of my games, I also want to borrow one of theirs. I have made exceptions though. I'm currently letting my sister borrow my PSP. xD
Skull_Kid
10-08-2008, 12:40 PM
Once a "friend" of my old school borrowed my OoT and he didn't want to give it back so i went to his house and beat the hell out of him muahahaha
Smitie
10-11-2008, 05:50 AM
i still never borrowed a game to anyone. My sister plays some of my games, but since she lives in the same house i don't count it as borrowing ;)
kpllk
10-11-2008, 07:43 AM
Me neither. I used to let people borrow my games but everyday I would ask for the game back and everyone had always seemed to leave it at there houses. Suspisios. I only let my best friend borrow my games now. Even then I am still very cautios.
Joshua
10-12-2008, 11:03 AM
I wouldn't consider my brothers playing games to be borrowing. I'm simply letting them play them.
I do let people borrow games and I borrow games from other people as well. I am somewhat selective though. I'm a game collector, so there are certain games that are worth a good deal of money that I'm not letting out of my sight.
And I don't lend games to random people or people I just met. It's usually a friend I hang out with all the time or a family member (cousins mostly). People who I trust enough not to steal my stuff.
I remember a lot of stories from High School about people who lent games to other random guys they became friend with just to get in a fight with them a week later and hate their guts and then they'd move away and they'd be left without their favorite game.
Lenora Dragon
10-25-2008, 01:06 AM
I have nothing really to lend.
My boyfriend has all the games, even if I've paid for them - because too often my nephews and nieces will destroy anything they come in contact with! Right now, I am being lent a couple GameCube games from him, so those are kept on a close watch - but I never let anyone touch them, because I am responsible if anything happens.
octorok74
11-18-2008, 05:14 PM
If I let someone play one of my games and I had to go somewhere, then I turn off the game and take the system (if handheld) or take something like the audio video cords so they can't do anything. I've had video games disappear when my dad holds on to them and I haven't got them back after around 5 years.
HyruleMaster
11-18-2008, 07:35 PM
im the person that likes to borrow games but let no one touch mine, i dont trust people but they trust me lol, but i do the pull the power cord stuff! hate when people play my ****
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